[Assam] Ekhon Gamochar Praticchabi..

[DR BIKASH KUMAR DAS]

Friends,
  I was in dilemma whether to write or not.But expressing my inner pain will release me from that syndrome.
  If I could say its my bad habit to sing for my Assam/North east, stndby my people- God help.It might be another sin to me.I am proud that to my every friends,patient and the get together I atend,I am proud to narrate about my home away in the forgotten east and telling them the truth on medias negative remarks.But-
  11 Feb 2008 incident gave me a deep scar to my did. At around 0930 hrs I was just in front of my clinic at Bangalore and while parking my scooter, I saw one new car with a nice foolam gamocha in the vew finder.The man d riving seems to know me as we have been organising un oficial Bihu past 8 yrs here.I raised hand to stop and to talk to ask about him.he stopped and talked little with our traditional smile of meeting a own man in aliens land. But when I saw another female siting behind with gloomy face- my smile gone.She was unhappy to meet an kharkhowa early that morning while on way to ofce(?) The facilal expression narrated all. I just asked the man d riving to go- still I dnt know if the man was a driver and Madam is his boss. My fault was that I like to drive  my scoter that was using since my military days.Best for traffic.I fail to show her a new  costly car!
  WE have Kharnokhowa axomiya al over like this and its growing.There have ben informations from various angles about girls specially avoiding talking to own people.Even to the worst they are into high level scandals.Thats what Delhi police too say.
  Whats wrong going around.Who will bring some feeling to this category.I know Pune girls too are in very bad shape.So far we have been standing for them.But how and when they will realise the mistake with wrong mistaken iidentity.Sometimes I feel boys are doing better. My elder daughter play for national level hockey.They feel happy to meet axomiya anywhere.They are brought up out of motherland after birth with the Assamese air in them.
  But the people coming for job out of Assam and earning wel have different anti axomiya feeling.Marrrying outsiders are increasing.They say axomiya boys are useless... I did heard so.It was pinching me for long.Today I felt of writing.
  Lot of Axomiya girls are working as HR manager in diferent companies,but none seems to help our boys to give some grace for the job.Where as all the rest Indian favour their own people first.Why do we fight living away from home? My one of friend works in a reputed MNC, one of his ( 1 km from his GHY home) HR deptt working lady is axomiya married to IT bengalee man.She always feel unhapy to see him- forget talking a single word!!! 
   
  Can we think al these issues/poor mentality well??This issue need good survey as well remedial actions.This can never be ignored at all.Globalizations never say to do this.
  My kids too asks when in get together on Bihu that why none talks to them??? My answer is since they earn big money, they are big man and we stand nowhere!! right.I feel so.
   
   


Dr.Bikash Kumar Das
Bangalore
       
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